Some people don’t sense the need to discover the missing pieces of their lives or try to understand how it all fits together.  We walk around like incomplete puzzles with huge gaps in the pictures of our lives, hoping no one will be able to see that we aren’t whole.  We try to cover up the blank spots with other pieces that we’ve made for ourselves, but those pieces never quite fit, and when someone gets close enough to us to look at the individual pieces, they soon uncover that we aren’t put together right.  This leads to more distortion as we attempt to rearrange them ourselves or they get torn apart and lost, and we scramble to try to fill the gaps again.  It doesn’t have to be this way…